The constraints of a reality humans create for themselves
and impose on others is most definitely Einstein’s DEF
of the insanity of doing the
same stuff over and over again
and expecting a different result.
I come here to this Internet site to study the human condition.
I come here to this Internet site for folks to criticize both my style of language
and content of language, to again study the human condition.
I come here to this Internet site for inspiration
to build upon ideas of imagination in prose
for the creation activity that I enjoy in life so much,
as it stimulates parts of my brain AND body in BALANCE
that are NEVER EVER stimulated by analytical thinking mind, alone.
I go to literally hundreds of DIVERSE International Poetry sites
to gain inspiration and create free verse poetry that is assessed by
VETERANS of both writing and reading poetry,
as ‘a new strata of free verse poetry
never seen before with poet eyes’.
Some folks describe
it as beautiful,
astounding, and amazing;
other folks describe it as too much text.
And yes, I can prove that with both quotes and links on request.
And that’s truly amazing, considering that in 2010
when I start this writing expedition,
I can write little more than ‘laundry lists’ of facts
in techno speak for the Federal government,
in some of the hats assigned by the Bosses
working for the Federal Government
regulations and guidelines,
IN MY federal service ‘there’
through the course
of a quarter of a century.
Oldavid, OMG of Evolving and Amazing CREATIVE Nature,
you come here over and over and OVER again every day trying to convince college educated young folks that evolution is some kind of conspiracy generated by scientist nerds THAT YOU MAGICALLY CHANGE INTO NARCISSISTS, all over the world, for CLOSE TO A century now.
You do prove in the parameters of this website that ‘human evolution’ is almost impossible for ‘some’ folks in the span of months, on a website, beyond the logic of repeating stuff that no one is ever EVER going to believe.
I communicate with you because you are a sure source of inspiration in my study of the human condition, as your flavor, though extremely vanilla, is fascinating, per doing the same stuff over and over and expecting a different result that human common sense dictates is literally impossible.
Need I say more. I tend to avoid personal attacks as they are the lowest level of hierarchy of human critical thinking on the bottom of the pyramid of human evolution in just one life.
However, I do play with humans from time to time; as that can be fun too..;)
I HAVE only one important piece of advice for you, NOW.
Change is LIFE.
Try it; you might like it, OR NOT.
But anyway, honestly, you inspire me enough in a way; that truly I can write FREE verse poetry about you, in an anonymous kind of way, in a prayer for change for you..:)
YOU are special…;”)
And you ‘should’ feel special; as those words are words I usually reserve for truly close friends, like my Muslim female friend(s) from Pakistan.
AND they move out of ‘the box’ with ease on a day to day basis amazingly FREE for living in countries that technically do NOT afford that luxury my friend.
It’s a wonderful time in history in the Good Ole USA to express the human condition in all “i’s” colors and ’50 shades of ‘GREY’.
AND TRULY FRIEND THAT IS WHAT LIFE IS EXPRESSED TO THE FULLEST; C R E A T I V I T Y; THE greaTEST evolution of all in just one LIFE FOR NOW..:)
‘The Kingdom of Heaven is Now’, expressed by the TEACHERS of past and PRESENT come fully alive for NOW.
Science, by way of Simon Baron Cohen, et al; shows that in general, Autism, is a deficit in human empathy; both cognitive and affective as a spectrum of difficulties; Yes, an imbalance of human mind and body in balance per systemizing machine cognition verses soul, heart, and spirit of HUMAN FEELINGS AND FEELINGS EXPRESSING, as cognitive and affective empathy with other human beings to achieve social cooperation for the best chance of survival, for the social animal human being is;
However, Autism is just a set of observable behavioral deficits as assessed by DSM5 Criteria, associated with difficulties with Reciprocal Social Communication in non-verbal language deficits; sharing interests and accomplishments and reciprocating same; as well as Restrictive and Repetitive behavior, including difficulties with sensory Integration as a variable of that; although not a requirement for diagnosis per sensory integration difficulties assessed through behavior, as well.
So, it is true that there are some Autistic folks who have extremely high levels of both cognitive and affective empathy assessed as such; yes, like me, by professionals who still ‘rate’ behavior as Autistic when folks go on and on about their special interests in intense focus; sometimes to the point where they do not recognize folks in their environment are sick and tired of hearing about it, etc., etc. etc. etc…
However, it is often the same dopamine associated focus that is also related to extreme emotions and affective empathy, AND CREATIVITY so the two most definitely CAN go ‘hand in hand’.
Autism is ‘only’ an abstract concept defined by members of the American Psychological Association APA, in the USA.
There are genetic causal factors limited to the more severely impacted, like Fragile X Syndrome, as direct causal factors of the condition of Autism Spectrum Disorder. But that is still about 5 percent of assessed folks with Autism, per previous diagnostic analysis, where only 11 percent are diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome; yes, it is substantial numbers.
There is no ‘One Autism'; and never will be, as it is an abstract concept of shared behavioral deficits with unlimited potentials of genetic and environmental issues associated as potential causal factors.
But anyway; personal attacks are most definitely a barometer of folks who do have deficits in cognitive and affective empathy.
For the human archetype of ’empath'; personally attacking someone else is no less than personally attacking oneself.
And true ’empaths’ care equally for both self and others as worthwhile and worth not personally attacking.
And of course the Internet and faceless anonymous avatars are a ‘perfect’ breeding ground for ‘weak’ folks with little self-esteem to bully others, as they have likely been bullied by others; and to get away with it; without getting their butts whipped like what might happen in real life, rough, and tumble reality, for true cowardice that is transparent as hell; for folks who are ‘bigger’ than that in terms of EMPATHY.
The greatest ‘stupidity’ is lack of human affective and cognitive empathy; and that evolving attribute of human being and all of the social cooperation that leads to abstract written language, collective intelligence, as well as complex culture and the byproducts of culture that are tools that do make life more comfortable, safe, and secure; AND are precisely the human evolving CULTURAL attributes that allow a pale skin flabby baby that cannot hold its BIG HEAD UP on its own, by a village of social cooperation to raise a defenseless WEAK child like this.
And yes; the true devolution of humankind is just this;
The loss of the village and humanity truly becoming a Zombie Apocalypse of creatures losing both cognitive and affective empathy that certainly is NOT an issue JUST associated with Autism, as research shows that in the last several decades that empirical measures of human empathy are decreasing to the tune of about 30% in several decades; as the ‘Zombie Apocalypse’ and ‘Terminator Series’ of cold hearted machine-like Robot Humans becomes not just fiction but cold hard hearTed objective reality, without a soul of mindful body and mind awareness in balance; a fully emotionally nuanced heArt; AND or a fully expressing spirit in both affective and cognitive empathy IS the devolution of human being through the guise of mechanical oriented cognition of cultural illusion of human hell come truth; in Just one life-time through the processes of both NEGATIVE Epigenetics and Neuroplasticity.
My real deficits of so-called abstract concept ‘Autism’, in functional disability, in social communication, is almost entirely culturally produced, as my diagnosing professionals agree; now that I for one have found the answers for my own cure in mind and body balance out of the cultural induced trap that is Autism, in at least my case. But yeah, “RRB’s” for me live on..;)
But an all encompassing special interest in strength training, creative dance in a style of martial arts and ballet; as well as free verse poetry is a perfect way to share with others, and reciprocally communicate as such; to a much greater extent than almost any other so-called Neurotypical can do.
Kind Autistics Taking in Everything Mindful in Awareness, KATiE MIA; (:@@@:) Autistic Love; And the Science of Kindology, An Ideological First identity; is MY ticket BACK TO HUMANITY, and away from all the reciprocal social deficits of Autism I do suffer from at one time FOR SURE; FROM the spoon- fed mechanical cognition poison of a culture increasingly growing ‘insane’ away from basic
CLASSICALLY EVOLVED SOCIAL ANIMAL
HUMANITY. Anything that teaches the Golden Rule; regardless of the details associated with that; that are incorrect; is miles ahead of what truly counts in life and that is HUMANITY.
THAT IS why religion will never ever die; it is core of what makes humans tick and survive; as religion is an EXTREMELY effective and affective avenue for human social cooperation and social bonding for common purpose, FOR SURVIVAL.
The height of human true IGNORANCE are all the moves of culture away from THAT.
As long as “YEC’s” are socially cooperating and having children who succeed in having more children they ARE SUCCEEDING IN what TRULY counts in surviving.
All the rest is just ‘fluff’ and ‘mental masturbation’, more or less..;)
(religious folks overall); YES, will inherit the earth; And even science shows that religion is in a lull (HULL); but soon to make (GRAINS) gains in the coming years; as numbers of procreation are always the bottom line of the SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST ALIVE.
Some folks talk about IT. And other folks just do the ‘wild thing’ and go on to continue A species THRIVING ALIVE.
‘Bibles’ are ‘just’ accessories to GET THE JOB DONE..;)
And ‘a’ women covered up except for eyes; that’s the ‘ultimate sexy’ for an ’empath’ like me, who can see a soul with just one look in the eyes of another, as well as desire of heaRts and spirIts expressed with ‘eye’.
Oh yeah, and here’s the EVIDENCE from ‘PEW POLL’, as this IS GOING to happen; ‘fairly’ soon, with more and more covered bodies and beauty of ‘eye’ EXPOSED..:)
And yes, this is a ‘deep’ issue of humanity that takes much deeper eyes and minds AND words, than the average human today is either capable of, or wills to do. But yes, it is fascinating for those who still have the innate human tools and WILLS to do just this; WITH ALL due empathic Respect of course, on course, FOR the
‘GOLDEN RULE OF EYES’..:)
HOPEFULLY THIS HELPS:
It will make plenty of sense
when ‘you’ have a Gay son or daughter.
And with your attitude here; If they commit suicide it will be both AT least, in part, YOUR FAULT AND THE FAULT of your bullying IGNORANT religion in BLACK work of Book.
The closest primate cousin of humankind, the Bonobo; all empathic LOVING social primate animal with God given Bonobo Nature regularly engages in oral sex; including tongue kissing and homosexual behavior as a way of life; hour to hour to assure aggression and violence is NOT A WAY OF LIFE; And IS extremely successful; more so than less sexually promiscuous human beings who never the less commonly engage in TOTALLY NORMAL GOD GIVEN HUMAN NATURE as Homosexuals; oral sex loving folks; and all the rest of that kinda STUFF THAT makes peace a reality instead of agression, violence and frigging WORLD WAR III.
“Homosexuality in bonobos is not cultural. When primatolgist Frans de Waal first saw the outlandish sexual acts of bonobos, other scientists remarked that the behavior must have arisen because those bonobos were locked in a zoo. But data gathered from the wild — and wild-born bonobos in captivity — over the past two decades has demonstrated that bonobo sexuality is just part of who they are.
The two bonobos Lodja and Mwanda were part of a study we conducted at Lola ya Bonobo sanctuary in Congo. Like many bonobos at the sanctuary and in the wild, these individuals practiced g-g rubbing, where two female bonobos rub their clitorises together, penis fencing between males, and a myriad of other socio-sexual behavior.
But what set Mwanda and Lodja apart, as well as the other six bonobos in the study, was that they were infants, each younger than 4 years old. They were orphans of the bushmeat trade, and were born in the wild. At Lola ya Bonobo, they were raised with other infants and human substitute mothers. There were no adult bonobos to “teach” them sexual behavior.
Sex for fun in bonobos, and many other animals, plays a social function. There is stress-relief sex, make-up sex and random hook-up sex. Chimpanzees, humans’ more violent cousins, do not seem to use sex in this way. They occasionally torture each other, kill strangers and demonstrate other echoes of humanity’s dark side. [Bonobos Make Love – Chimps Make War ]
Bonobos, who use sex to resolve conflict, have never been seen to kill each other. They share food. They are more cooperative than chimpanzees. And they are nicer to strangers than they are to friends. To bonobos, a peaceful, sexual existence is the most natural thing in the world.”
I am ‘strong as a chimp'; but as loving as a Bonobo; yes, for me women, ONLY; but to each his own with HUMAN GOD GIVEN NATURE FREEDOMS.”
I LOVE TO play with Homophobes in real life; trust me; I put them in their place of total IGNORANCE; A martial artist can do that with a whole group of male homophobes; TOTALLY FEARLESS.
But anyway; with a little education for ‘YOU';
Your sons or daughters VERY LIFE could DEPEND ON IT; if you care to reproduce; particularly, more than one son; as science shows that the next batch of sons are more likely to be HOMOSEXUAL; AND THAT’S A FACT OF all God of Nature Given Human Nature; And yes, Science, too.
These kind of human beliefs are both ignorant, disgusting, and non-human as both science and GOD PROVES.
YOU don’t get to control GOD or gays with a little black work of human constructed words.
You can try; or even cry; but sorry; it will not work in a ‘True Israel’ like the GOOD OLE USA; BY ‘Book of Ignorance’.
I assert absolutely no false accusations
about ‘you’ or your family; as it is all contingent
on ‘you’ having gay children; which you do not have now. So pay attention to what I write or NOT.
Anyway, the scripture you quote is both ignorant and false according to both the GOD of Nature and Science.
So there; believe that or not…;)
There is no such thing as a ‘real friend’ who does not tolerate, accept, and support the FULL GOD given nature of another person which does include homosexual acts, in the case of your brother, believe that or not.
Folks that commit suicide don’t always give reasons; the greater pain is often kept silent.
And this is certainly the case for social acceptance of full human God Given Nature in the case of homosexuals who do commit suicide; whose natures are considered evil, by way of homosexual acts, by ignorant so called loving folks; who are far far from understanding GOD and God Given Natures of other humans beings who are simply created differently by God of Nature, per minds and bodies that do the ‘wild stuff’ with the same sex.
Just something to ethically consider OR NOT. Contrived morals of religion ARE OFTEN FALSE ranging from Female Genital Mutilation to not understanding that Homosexual Acts are part AND ART of God given HUMAN NATURE..:)
Let me put it to you in clear “layman’s” terms. This is a very personal issue for me; as I as an individual in the past have a very dear Lesbian friend who is going to commit suicide with a loaded revolver; where I have to use this same exact logic; to talk her down away from a loaded revolver to explain WHY her mother is so ignorant not to accept her homosexual behavior; because of something someone writes in a book somewhere thousands of years ago.
Humans will do almost anything for social acceptance with the ‘herd’ of humans they are raised in; yes, including driving their children to commit suicide for the best intentions prescribed to them out of religion. And in my life I find that Gay folks are among the MOST kind and loving folks; they just use different body parts to do stuff and that is all. And in fact, they are often the last folks who will go against their parents; as they often find love nowhere else; suicide can be the only option to escape when no one accepts a person’s nature fully; not even family and parents. That is beyond sad my friend; and beyond sad if you cannot see and FEEL THAT.
This not only sad; it is truly terrifying and deadly FOR those who reap the real sin of the real evil portions of a book that does in DEED drive innocent and kind loving folks; and yes, sure, so-called well intentioned relatives to driving them straight to their graves.
I look at this like it’s worth saving someone’s life.
Perhaps you look at it as scripture and a 2000 to 3500 year old book.
But yes; life and the God of Nature and that real human
GAY NATURE THAT ANYONE with any common decency who has empathy and doesn’t even need a science book to know,
DUH; GAY IS all natural and clear to see; from as early as early grade school, my friend.
Alcoholism is a horrifying disease.
Sexual acts from gay folks are totally Natural God given Human Nature ACTS.
There is a huge difference friend, and truly it all boils down to unconditional love; or NOT.
I’ve done my part now, and can rest in peace. Your will is yours and you will face the God of Nature for all you do; as all do, in time, friend, to learn and evolve as an Unconditional Tough Loving creature OR NOT.
As SAME LOVE:
I am a freedom fighter; and in real life; no homophobe escapes
my force of Unconditional Tough Love for all; as truly
their real all natural souls, hearts, and spirits
are at the ‘stake of life or death’, as well…
After hearing all this; can you even imagine how you ‘would’ feel if your child committed suicide after being warned with this; if you didn’t feel bad; that is the saddest story of ALL.
And the ‘tears’ of
roll down, down, down
OCEAN of unwitting HATE.
If I have a TSunAmi I will wash it ALL AWAY.
I have 100% faith, hope and belief GOD will HELP ME Do ‘Just’ that.
Love and Humans are worth defending.
Text is text; Scripture or ‘WTF’.
It’s totally disgusting;
‘That’ makes ‘sense’. And ‘that’ is truly ‘sad’ beyond ‘words’ that ‘some’ obviously cannot ‘see’.
And I guess “that’s” just ‘the way’ ‘it’ goes for ‘some folks’, As my ‘father’ tells ‘me';
In more ways than one; If there is a ‘fair GOD'; truly ‘folks’ will answer for ‘this';
If not; that’s just ‘the way it goes for some folks’, AS my father tells me.
If ‘THAT’ ‘is’ ‘my brother’ I will love ‘him’ unconditionally and show him THE ONLY HEAVEN THAT IS NOW; regardless of God Given Nature;
AND all my brothers and sisters ARE ONE.
I feel sorry for your brother; but more than anything, I feel beyond sorry for you; seriously; for you know not what you even do.
Ah.. yes.. the love of the mommy feels like no other.. but the love of the mommy is most important of all.. and so sad.. it is for children to love mommy.. and mommy not able to express this all unconditional love for child as well.. the pains of life do go both ways.. and when my wife’s mother dies.. the consolation can never be found.. as she never feels the love.. ever in her life.. ah.. to love is to gain.. ah to not love at all.. is the saddest expression of all…
And that darkness of feeling her loss that is never found.. is beyond a bottomless pit of nothing.. i know to feel for her.. as i feel the feelings of others like they are my own.. as well…
i hope it’s not the same for you friend.. as my wife still wants her mommy back.. and to be her little girl.. too.. and she never even meets or talks to her father.. so that is all i will ever really be to her.. as well.. and i guess i never really feel a father either.. so i have to be my own father too..
Yes.. truly.. sooner or later we have to be our own best friend.. mother.. father.. wife or husband.. as life is long.. and comfort is full of gains and loss.. wherever love is found.. is a place to capture life.. and light.. and sometimes the darkness of loss.. is brighter than never finding light…